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THANK YOU! Voted “2018 Most Photogenic Feet” by Footnight International Fans!

That’s Me, in the back row, your far right (silver dress), towering over everyone!

This year’s Footnight International Awards completely blew Me away! THANK YOU SO MUCH, MY DARLING FANS!

Since 2014, I have been nominated for 17 different awards by Footnight fans, and have won 4 awards (all in the last 3 years). As a non-clip producer, I was deeply honored and surprised to receive this award – it’s typically gone to people who have deep catalogs of foot fetish clips. 

By contrast, I only have a few clips available directly through My store and through My Niteflirt page – there’s a huge audience of fans on clip sites who still haven’t seen My footfetish content.

This year, I will be launching an IWantClips store (in the coming weeks, actually!), and hopefully stores on a couple other platforms as well, so that you guys, My fans, can continue to nourish the flame of your love with My feet.

In addition to this awesome award, I was also awarded the 2018 Power Promoter Award – a recognition I am deeply touched by, as I know it comes with a sincere appreciation from the entire Footnight organization. Footnight was actually My first foray into the world of professional domination almost 10 years ago, in 2008, when Princess Kali still hosted it in Boston. I’d met Kali a few months before, and heard angels sing when she told Me about her life as a Pro Domme – the next Footnight party was My first chance to experience being pampered for pay, and boy, was I hooked! 

I share this year’s award with the inimitable Snow Mercy and Stella Liberty, both of whom we are all lucky enough to have right here in Los Angeles. If you haven’t yet sessioned with either of these fine ladies, what the heck are you waiting for?? Life’s too short!

Congratulations also to all of the other amazing Women who were both nominated and won awards this year – I am proud to say I call many of these fine ladies My friends.

So much love to all of My fans and supporters – this would not be possible without you.

Princess Marx

PS – I’d like to thank the academy, and of course My parents, without whom these catalog-perfect toes wouldn’t be possible. Both Mom & Dad have beautiful feet – something I’ve noticed since I was a child.

It’s My frikkin’ birthday!

Wooo! Celebrate!

In the last few years, I haven’t really made a big fuss around My birthday (I know, so unlike what you’d expect from a Dominatrix) – it tends to come before and after a lot of other holidays, and it just seems like too much to worry about.

But that doesn’t have to stop you from celebrating February 7th, the day the Earth was blessed with My existence! 

Here’s a link to My wishlist so that you may thank the Gods of capitalism (and My parents, indirectly through Me) that you’re allowed to know of Me: tinyurl.com/prmarx

All that being said, I do live a pretty fabulous life year-round, so I don’t really feel like I’m missing out (nor do I feel that weird capitalist urge to outdo oneself on this one day – too reminiscent of keeping up with the Joneses). AND, I typically schedule some sort of birthday celebration in March/April, when things have calmed down a bit. 

Already the flowers, sweet tweets, and other social media posts have started pouring in. And, needless to say, my slaves and submissives have been diligently marking the day before it even started, with one barely able to contain himself before the clock passed 11:59pm on Feb. 6th.

Today, I’ll probably treat Myself to a full-body seaweed wrap treatment at the Korean Spa – it was the very first luxurious spa thing I did for My birthday years ago, and it’s become a beloved tradition. On My birthday, I choose self care.

Thank you all in advance for your well wishes and gifts!

~ Princess 

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FALL TOUR: MIAMI, FLL, & ATLANTA (November) TAMPA & BOSTON (December)

“One of the most popular, sought-after foot models on the Internet” – Steve Savage, CEO, Footnight International

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Touring:

  • MIAMI Nov 27-28 
  • ATLANTA Nov 27-30 
  • TAMPA Nov 30-Dec 3 
  • BOSTON Dec 5-8

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Completed:

  • DENVER Oct 2-4 
  • SAN FRANCISCO + San Jose Oct 22-24
  • SEATTLE Oct 25-28
  • NEW ORLEANS Oct 29-31

When not traveling, Princess Marx is based in Los Angeles.

* Pre-book only. Deposit required.
* Select clients only. Priority given to longer sessions.
* Studs available – additional notice & tribute

ABOUT PRINCESS MARX

Princess Marx is the 2016 Footnight International “Most Fascinating and Captivating Model” award recipient, and was named a Top Humiliatrix by Princess Kali.

If a slave can’t be useful, it should at least be entertaining.
 
I’m a sadist with range. I particularly enjoy ballbusting (my favorite), bondage, foot worship, corporal punishment [the singletail and cane are My specialty), sissies, CBT, cuckolding, shopping, and tributed dates and cashmeets.
 
Typically the only sensual sessions I offer are foot worship, but all My sessions involve some element (however small) of sensuality. 
 
I pride Myself on My professionalism, and don’t suffer fools.
 
My usual style, when it isn’t just plain cruel, is playfully mocking. 

I recently recorded two ballbusting videos with famous Italian art critic, lawyer, and budding pornographer, Andrea Dipre. 

Politely request the pleasure of My company here.
 

KinkWeekly’s “Ask a Dominatrix”: On Cock and Ball Torture (CBT)

 
It’s time for another installment of my advice column on KinkWeekly! Do you have a burning question you’d like Me to answer? Email marxassistant@gmail.com.
 
This week on “Ask a Dominatrix”…
 
Question:
 
My boyfriend likes to be dominated, and I’m pretty new to it but I’ve been trying out a few things.  Tying him up, teasing him, spanking, clamps are all super fun.  Yesterday he asked me if I would do “cock and ball torture” on him.  I’ve been reading up and it sounds pretty intense – I’m worried I might cause some damage, particularly if I hit or kick him in the nuts.  Are you able to give me any advice about trying this out?
 
Alicia
My answer:
 
Dear Future Genitorturess, 

 
As a notorious ballbusting enthusiast, this is one of my favorite questions! The reality is, those little suckers (balls) can take a lot more abuse than you think! Just search for the video of me kicking Andrea Dipre in the nuts wearing shoes with full 1-inch metal spikes on the toebox! 
 
Of course, Andrea is an experienced (and motivated) ballbusting recipient, and we’ve known each other long enough to be able to do that. We’re both practicing RACK – risk-aware consensual kink. 
 
So, on that note, here are a few things I recommend – and some of these apply to *any* BDSM play:
 
1) Know thyself, and your partner. You must have trust, and you must be able to monitor & gauge your partner’s reactions while playing. If your boyfriend specifically asked for it, chances are, it’ll be VERY clear to you when he’s enjoying himself, and when he isn’t – just make sure you’re paying attention. Go slowly and build intensity, and with time, you’ll know you partner well enough to skip ahead to the fun parts more quickly 🙂
 
2) Have a safeword, at least while you’re still experimenting. Once you’re both more comfortable, you can even move away from using a safeword.
 
I’m a fan of pushing boundaries with playpartners when there is mutual trust, but you have to both be on that page – use both your spideysense and explicit verbal communication to decide when and how far you can push.
 
3) Circulation (or the loss thereof) is one of the biggest concerns. If you notice swelling, or a loss of sensation or color, immediately loosen the bondage or cease activity. If it doesn’t get better, seek urgent professional help. Of course, with time, you’ll learn how much your partner can take without ever getting to that point.
 
4) Tension is the other area of high concern. Tying the testicles to a fixed point for prolonged periods risks torsion or rupture, particularly if your partner has a quick reaction to something and is being held by the testes. Being tied to weights for long periods carries similar risks. 
 
5) Take breaks. Give your partner a break every 20-30 minutes, or as needed, to alleviate pressure, tension, and circulation.
 
6) Always keep safety materials on hand – in particular, safety shears (the kind with the rounded, rather than pointed, tips). At about $5 on average, they’re one of the best safety investments even in vanilla practice.
 
7) Beware of squeezing anything too hard, at least until you know what your partner enjoys – and as you get to know them, you’ll also learn what they can take, and when you can push them a bit. 
 
8) Blood is a pathogen. You probably already have some sort of mutual understanding on body fluids with your boyfriend, but remember that there are diseases that aren’t transmitted sexually, but can be transmitted via blood contact. 
 
9) Remember: Google is your friend. No list I write in a Q&A format can ever be exhaustive enough, so PLEASE do yourself a favor and google this a little more before starting play.
 
10) Last, but perhaps most importantly, HAVE.FUN!!! The great joy of a D/s dynamic is getting to do things that are normally considered taboo. We’re all supposed to be very nice and polite to each other IRL; the joy of BDSM is that you get to fuck with that. 
 
I think that’s probably why ballbusting is my all-time favorite BDSM activity: I’m (shockingly!) actually a nice person IRL, and would never kick someone without consent (although some people really deserve it..). In play, we get to do those things to people with not only their permission, but with their desire. There’s even a band called The Genitorturers!
 
Enjoy!

AUGUST 24: Footnight in the Valley! Grand Opening

Princess Marx

 

It’s time the Grand Opening of Footnight San Fernando Valley!

Footnight in the Valley

Thursday August 24th

8pm-1am

Van Nuys, CA

TICKETS

Curious about Me? 

Yearn to know what I look like?

Come out to Footnight! 🙂

Tickets are $40-$65. 

It’s a fantastic party with not only Me, but several other Dominas and world-famous foot models.

Free catered food, free soft drinks, and BYOB.

Fan art of Princess Marx by @darnell_datdude_skribbles

Fan art of Princess Marx by @darnell_datdude_skribbles

My Pro-Domme Origin Story

 

Princess Marx is a lifelong kinkster. Her first kinky thoughts came to her in prepubescence, and depicted unequivocally Female Supremacist power dynamics with Warrior Goddess/Queen overtones (without genuflection to religion or monarchy). They were also decidedly queer, and involved both giantesses and dolls.

Beleaguered by the expectations placed on the “good girl”/”golden child” in her native (non-Soviet) Slavic home country, she kept her kinks and sexuality hidden through childhood and her teenage years.

However, upon reading Dossie Easton’s The Ethical Slut at the end of college, she freed herself of the golden cage of sexual and gender conformity, and became known among her friends then (and thereafter) as an emancipator of sexuality, leading a group of straight-identifying besties at her Ivy League undergrad to come out as sexually- and gender-queer.

Pro-Domme Origins

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New Column: KinkWeekly’s “Ask a Dominatrix:” Sub or Bottom?

I was recently asked to contribute to KinkWeekly‘s regular advice column called “Ask a Dominatrix” with my good friend Lucy Khan. I’ll be posting these regularly.

Do you have a burning question you’d like us to answer? Email kinkweekly@gmail.com!

Question:

I am a long time kinkster, and I’m interested in trying out a session with a pro-Domme (having mostly topped in the past).  I’m very interested in being restrained in bondage along with teasing, sensation play and experimenting with mild pain.  I’m not really “submissive” though – the thought of being talked down to, humiliated or given commands is a turn off.  From looking at many pro Domme’s web sites and social media feeds, it seems like many really believe in female supremacy and expect their clients to treat them accordingly.  Are there any pro Dommes that can offer more of a tailored  play experience without me needing to grovel etc.  If so, how can I find them?

My Answer:

The vast majority of trained, experienced, and above all, *professional* players should be able to help you. Although many of us express a preference for a specific kind of scene or interaction, most of us are trained as fantasy facilitators who are able to wear many hats and play a multitude of roles.

I emphasize the word “professional” on purpose. One of the cornerstones of professionalism in any field is competence. In this case, this means competence in the plethora of skills expected of a full-service BDSM provider. Perhaps you can use this distinction in your evaluation of each Domme: use your judgment to discern what’s mere “fantasy talk” (which comprises much of what’s on people’s websites – and remember, these are our fantasies, too), and someone’s level of BDSM skill and professionalism.

Secondly, consent & communication are cornerstones of BDSM (unless consensual non-consent is explicitly agreed to ahead of time). You shouldn’t have to experience anything in a scene that you specifically said you’re NOT into. Every professional will respect that if you communicate it, and every non-professional should, too.

I’d recommend you contact a few Dommes/providers, communicate your wishes/concerns to each of them, and see how they respond. Then you can have your pick. Most likely, all of them will say, “No problem.” A scene is, at the end of the day, a negotiated interaction.Remember to respectfully communicate your needs, and always use your judgment.

Good luck & good whippings!
~ Princess Marx
www.princessmarx.com